90 Day Fiance couple Darcey Silva and Tom Brooks’ relationship has appeared to be on shaky ground on Season 4 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, so what happened between this couple? Did they break up or are they still together?
[90 Day Fiance Spoilers: This report contains spoilers revealing if Darcey and Tom are still together and will spoil their storyline on 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days].
Tom, a 39-year-old from Nottingham, United Kingdom, and Darcey, a 45-year-old from Middletown, CT, appeared on Episode 2 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days’ new season, which premiered February 23 on TLC.
Darcey — who first starred on Seasons 1 and 2 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days with her now-ex Jesse Meester — was shown traveling to England and falling in love with Tom on last year’s third edition of Before the 90 Days.
When Darcey first met Tom in person and hoped for love at first sight, she quickly came to realize they weren’t on the same page.
Darcey said they had been dating and getting to know each other for several years already, so she was smitten with Tom and hoped for a marriage proposal by the end of her stay.
But in Tom’s mind, they were just meeting in-person and needed to take things slow.
“I’m not really at the stage of thinking where I’m going to settle down, get married, have kids, and move to her country or have her move here,” Tom told his sister Emma last season.
“I’m at the point where I’m meeting someone I’ve been really good friends with and I’m going to see where it goes.”
Tom acknowledged Darcey lived in “a bit of a fantasy” when it came to romance and was “a little difficult to deal with.” He was guarded and had walls up because he had been hurt in the past.
As the season progressed, Tom found himself wanting a serious relationship with Darcey, who was willing to give the businessman her whole heart. Tom came to believe Darcey was a good woman with the best of intentions.
So while enjoying their last dinner together in England at the end of Darcey’s stay, Tom told the mother of two, “Here’s to loving and to knowing what love is — and knowing that when you have it, you should hold on to it.”
“I do love you,” Tom told Darcey. “I’ve always loved you. I’m actually in love with you, very much so.”
“I love you,” Darcey replied.
Tom then gave Darcey a key to his house so she could visit any time she’d like. She was disappointed it wasn’t an engagement ring, but Darcey was so head over heels she didn’t care.
When it became time for the pair to say goodbye at the airport, Tom told Darcey after hugging and kissing her, “It’s not goodbye; it’s see you soon… I do see a future with us together.”
But the season finale of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days’ third season showed Tom breaking up with Darcey just a few weeks after she returned to America from her trip to England.
“I saw myself marrying Tom one day. Dated Jesse for two years and then it faded, and here we go again,” Darcey said in a confessional during the episode.
“I’m just going to keep going on with my life, and if someone else comes along that feels right, I’m going to move on with my life.”
Heading into the Tell-All special, however, Tom said his relationship with Darcey was “complicated” because he loved her very much. He therefore wanted to see if being a couple long-term was a real possibility.
Darcey and Tom therefore planned to spend a full day together after filming the Tell-All special for 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days’ third season, which aired on TLC in October 2019.
Darcey and Tom made an appearance in the second episode of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days’ fourth season.
Darcey said she finally felt “true love” with Tom, which is why “it hurt so much” when they “drifted apart” following her return to the United States.
Darcey wondered if she had been too needy and pointed out how Tom never even called her or sent a card or gift on her birthday, which was one week prior to when this scene filmed.
Darcey felt “sad and unloved” on her birthday, and she cried to the cameras because Tom had allegedly said he was going to call.
Darcey said Tom later texted her, apologizing and asking to videochat so he could tell her something. Darcey’s twin sister Stacey Silva felt Darcey deserved better and should move on, and Darcey also acknowledged she deserved to be loved passionately and respected.
“I will give him a shot, but that’s it. This is the last shot! Otherwise, it’s done,” Darcey told Stacey. “I don’t want to feel used, manipulated or played for a fool.”
Darcey complained Tom was hot and cold about their relationship, and although she wasn’t sure what Tom wanted, they were still a couple in her mind.