90 Day Fiance stars Tom Brooks and Darcey Silva will be starring on the fourth season of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days, but what happened since viewers last saw them on Season 3 of the spinoff — did they split or are they still together?
[90 Day Fiance Spoilers: This article contains big spoilers revealing if Tom and Darcey are still together. This will spoil their storyline on 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days’ fourth season].
Tom, a 39-year-old from Nottingham, United Kingdom, and Darcey, a 45-year-old from Middletown, CT, have yet to appear on 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days’ new season, which just premiered February 23 on TLC, but that is going to change.
Darcey — who also appeared on Seasons 1 and 2 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days with her now-ex Jesse Meester — was shown traveling to England and falling in love with Tom on last year’s third season of Before the 90 Days.
When Darcey first met Tom in person and hoped for true love at first sight, she quickly came to realize they weren’t on the same page.
In Darcey’s mind, she and Tom had been dating and getting to know each other for years already, but in Tom’s mind, they needed to get to know each other and take their time dating.
“I’m not really at the stage of thinking where I’m going to settle down, get married, have kids, and move to her country or have her move here,” Tom told his sister Emma last season.
“I’m at the point where I’m meeting someone I’ve been really good friends with and I’m going to see where it goes.”
Tom acknowledged Darcey lived in “a bit of a fantasy” when it comes to romance and he didn’t want to rush things.
But Darcey was smitten with Tom and loved how he treated her, so she was hoping for a marriage proposal by the end of her stay in England.
Tom, however, was guarded because he had been hurt in the past, and he also found Darcey to be overly emotional and “a little difficult to deal with.”
As the season progressed, Tom found himself wanting a serious relationship with Darcey, who was willing to give the businessman her whole heart. Tom came to believe Darcey is a good woman with great intentions.
So while enjoying their last dinner together in England at the end of Darcey’s stay, Tom told the mother of two, “Here’s to loving and to knowing what love is — and knowing that when you have it, you should hold on to it.”
“I do love you,” Tom told Darcey. “I’ve always loved you. I’m actually in love with you, very much so.”
“I love you,” Darcey replied.
Tom then gave Darcey a key to his house so she could visit any time she’d like.
When it became time for the pair to say goodbye at the airport, Tom told Darcey after hugging and kissing her, “It’s not goodbye; it’s see you soon… I do see a future with us together.”
Darcey was optimistic about her future with Tom, but she was well aware of how hard long-distance relationships can be.
The season finale of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days’ third season showed Tom breaking up with Darcey just a few weeks after she returned to America from her trip to England.
“I saw myself marrying Tom one day. Dated Jesse for two years and then it faded, and here we go again,” Darcey said in a confessional during the episode.
“I’m just going to keep going on with my life, and if someone else comes along that feels right, I’m going to move on with my life.”
But heading into the Tell-All special, Tom said his relationship with Darcey was “complicated” because he loved her very much. He wanted to see if being a couple long-term was a real possibility.
Darcey and Tom therefore planned to spend a full day together after filming the Tell-All special for 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days’ third season, which aired on TLC in October 2019.